Have you watched the movie “Date Night”?  Well, this post is not about sharing a movie review although I must say I enjoyed the movie.

I shared some of the sentiments in the movie. There is a part in the movie where the wife/mommy, Tina Fey, confessed to her husband that she wished that she could have a day where she could spend a day alone, not being disturbed by anyone else.

[So, is that a common wish of every mommy?]

Oh, that part really echoed what I have always been telling Papa Ed all this while “If only I could have that ONE DAY ALONE when I won’t have to take care of anyone else and just spend the day alone, not being disturbed.”

Hmmm, I mean a SHORT-TERM SOLITUDE  when I could have complete rest and privacy, ALONE.

Really, I cannot remember when was the last time I had complete time alone after I started a family, at least for a day, when I will not receive any phone call from anyone from home/office, and not having to worry about the kids. 

Do these sound familiar to you “Phone calls from kids when you are trying to just enjoy a peaceful dinner with husband“; “Kids asking when you will be home when you have just stepped out with your friends for a few hours“; “Rushing from one shop to another, instead of enjoying your shopping experience, as the kids need you at home” or “Having to return frantic calls in the middle of a facial appointment, with the facial mask on your face, as the SOS calls/smses from home just won’t stop“?

If they do sound familiar, WELCOME to the COMPANY! *wink*

[As parents, these instances become so common especially when you have young kids, don't they?]

That sea breeze and limitless sea - have always brought peace to my heart.

My wish is not that complicated - A Day by My Own at the Beach - no phone calls, no worries and then be home the next day, not having to feel sorry and knowing that everything is in good order despite my absence. Well, well, well……If only I could have that SHORT-TERM SOLITUDE, just to recharge myself.

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