I realise…

Spending more time together can be destructive if it means also getting on each other’s nerves more frequently and minding each other’s business too much.

To make the best of spending more time together…..

 Remember.

 Nag just enough,

Complain less,

Engage in activities together,

Mind less of each other’s business,

Communicate more but constructively,

Respect each other’s way of living and presence,

Think less of our pride - Give in.

I guess fiction arises when two persons spend more time together but with communications breaking down.

In our daily conversations, Darren taught me: “Mommy, I read that to live to an old age, we must MIND OUR OWN BUSINESS.”

Yeah! A golden tip in life:) *one that we often forget - when we spend more time with another person, we become nosy*.

This is really a timely reminder when I am spending more time with growing up boys. 

I am so loving every minute of the time I spend with our boys everyday although they do get on my nerves sometimes (or all the times)…*haha*